Thursday, June 19, 2014

Danger - Prescription Meds




I'd like to begin this article by saying that I do believe God has called many into the medical profession; however, I don't believe that the doctors and the nurses are the healers.  These men and women of service are merely professionals who help us to get our bodies back in line so that the body can heal itself, as God intended.  Like most of you, I praise God for skilled surgeons who work on our bodies like a mechanic, creating alignment and cleansing in preparation for God to perform a healing miracle for those who would otherwise be hopeless.

On the other hand, we would be ignorant to think that those in the medical profession are exempt from being duped by the devil.  Satan is out to kill, steal and destroy and he will even use intelligence and good intentions to do it if given the chance.  In today's world the love of money is certainly the root of much medical misinformation.  Sadly, educated professionals who don't have an intimate relationship with the Lord can be easy targets for the devils tactics. 

While many medical professionals are very concerning and cautious about their patients, some of these well-meaning workers simply have no idea of the havoc being reaped by their trust in what they've been taught is good.  Other's may actually participate with the devil through the love of money, taking no thought of the destruction that certain pharmaceutical companies are causing with their marketing schemes.  

Having said that, I'd like to share a deep concern that I have for patients, as well as those in the medical field.  I've been ministering to a family for many days in desperate need of help for their loved one who has had mental side effects from prescription drugs.

Let this be a warning to you; family members have very little legal rights when it comes to the medical, mental health of a loved one who is of legal age. And once someone has an adverse reaction (mental side effects) from anxiety and depression medications, that patient is not in their right mind and cannot help themselves. It is a demonic cobweb of bondage where the medical profession actually participates in making things worse instead of better. 

Way too many lives are being ruined by prescription drug abuse! 

Grieving is a natural process that does not need to be suppressed by drugs.   

Jay and I minister to people every week who are hooked on prescription meds. They never thought it could happen to them... BUT IT DID! 

The most common prescription drug addiction that we see is the use of pain killers such as Hydrocodone.  This drug is also found under street names such as Norco, Hydro and Vikes, the latter of which refers to Vicodin, a brand-name drug that contains Hydrocodone.  Sadly, many non-suspected drug abusers are succumbing to the lure of this powerful drug. We have witnessed some "good people" rob pharmacies by gun-point, steal valuables from friends and abuse these drugs to the point of being non-functioning parents to their children. The results are families ripped apart, long rehab programs and even prison sentences, for some. Thus, many families are being ruined by their addicted loved ones reluctance to give up their pain meds.

Other prescription drugs that we have witnessed severe addiction to are those mind altering drugs such as (but, not limited to) Adderall.  These types of addictions seem to be even more evil in that the addicted person can experience hallucinations and mania/pschosis which makes the medical profession tend to "up their dose" or prescribe a cocktail of mind altering drugs in an effort to "help them" overcome their mental malady. In addition to heart problems and stroke, another side effect of Adderall is the development of tourettes sydrome (tics & twitches) - which may or may not be permanent.  

There are so many other prescription drugs that have serious side effects, INCLUDING DEATH; yet, Americans are swallowing these pills my the millions everyday.  Satan is having a blast as many doctors play russian roulette with their patients pathway to health; all the while, the patient is looking to a pill and/or their doctor as some sort of God that can heal them.  (See 2 Chronicles 16:12-13)

Be strong in The Lord and seek Him (not a pill) for comfort; and for goodness sake, avoid mind altering drugs. Read the warning labels! Remember, a person whose mind has been altered to a point of "strange behavior," hallucinations, highs & lows (manic depression), agitation, and so on... many times cannot see that they are sick! They tell their doctor (who sees them for 5 minutes) that they need more meds. Family & friends know there is something terribly wrong but they are helpless to intervene because the patient has privacy rights that actually work against them in these types of situations. 

So, what should we do when we are experiencing depression, anxiety, sleeplessness and even severe pain?  Diet and exercise, research ailments & cures, read labels and warnings, make pill taking a last resort, always seek the Lord, consider natural remedies first and limit taking prescription medications to a set amount of time. Many times, the answers to our condition could simply be our lifestyle, our diet, our attitude, our worship, our faith, our forgiveness or our willingness to seek the Lord. 

Take time to heal. Take time to pray. Take time to read your Bible. And, certainly take time to educate yourself concerning the side effects of prescription medications.  If the side effects of a prescribed drug are worse than your condition, STOP and pray.  Ask the Lord which pathway to healing that He would have you to follow.  He is your healer! 

Lord save us from our destructions! 

Psalm 107

O give thanks unto the Lord, for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever.

2 Let the redeemed of the Lord say so, whom he hath redeemed from the hand of the enemy;

3 And gathered them out of the lands, from the east, and from the west, from the north, and from the south.

4 They wandered in the wilderness in a solitary way; they found no city to dwell in.

5 Hungry and thirsty, their soul fainted in them.

6 Then they cried unto the Lord in their trouble, and he delivered them out of their distresses.

7 And he led them forth by the right way, that they might go to a city of habitation.

8 Oh that men would praise the Lord for his goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men !

9 For he satisfieth the longing soul, and filleth the hungry soul with goodness.

10 Such as sit in darkness and in the shadow of death, being bound in affliction and iron;

11 Because they rebelled against the words of God, and contemned the counsel of the most High:

12 Therefore he brought down their heart with labour; they fell down, and there was none to help.

13 Then they cried unto the Lord in their trouble, and he saved them out of their distresses.

14 He brought them out of darkness and the shadow of death, and brake their bands in sunder.

15 Oh that men would praise the Lord for his goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men!

16 For he hath broken the gates of brass, and cut the bars of iron in sunder.

17 Fools because of their transgression, and because of their iniquities, are afflicted.

18 Their soul abhorreth all manner of meat; and they draw near unto the gates of death.

19 Then they cry unto the Lord in their trouble, and he saveth them out of their distresses.

20 He sent his word, and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions.

21 Oh that men would praise the Lord for his goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men!

22 And let them sacrifice the sacrifices of thanksgiving, and declare his works with rejoicing.

23 They that go down to the sea in ships, that do business in great waters;

24 These see the works of the Lord, and his wonders in the deep.

25 For he commandeth, and raiseth the stormy wind, which lifteth up the waves thereof.

26 They mount up to the heaven, they go down again to the depths: their soul is melted because of trouble.

27 They reel to and fro, and stagger like a drunken man, and are at their wit's end.

28 Then they cry unto the Lord in their trouble, and he bringeth them out of their distresses.

29 He maketh the storm a calm, so that the waves thereof are still.

30 Then are they glad because they be quiet; so he bringeth them unto their desired haven.

31 Oh that men would praise the Lord for his goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men!

32 Let them exalt him also in the congregation of the people, and praise him in the assembly of the elders.

33 He turneth rivers into a wilderness, and the watersprings into dry ground;

34 A fruitful land into barrenness, for the wickedness of them that dwell therein.

35 He turneth the wilderness into a standing water, and dry ground into watersprings.

36 And there he maketh the hungry to dwell, that they may prepare a city for habitation;

37 And sow the fields, and plant vineyards, which may yield fruits of increase.

38 He blesseth them also, so that they are multiplied greatly; and suffereth not their cattle to decrease.

39 Again, they are minished and brought low through oppression, affliction, and sorrow.

40 He poureth contempt upon princes, and causeth them to wander in the wilderness, where there is no way.

41 Yet setteth he the poor on high from affliction, and maketh him families like a flock.

42 The righteous shall see it, and rejoice: and all iniquity shall stop her mouth.

43 Whoso is wise, and will observe these things, even they shall understand the lovingkindness of theLord.

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2 Chronicles 16:12-13


12And Asa in the thirty and ninth year of his reign was diseased in his feet, until his disease was exceeding great: yet in his disease he sought not to the LORD, but to the physicians. 13And Asa slept with his fathers, and died in the one and fortieth year of his reign. 

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Psalm 103 

Bless the Lord, O my soul: and all that is within me, bless his holy name.
Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits:
Who forgiveth all thine iniquities; who healeth all thy diseases;
Who redeemeth thy life from destruction; who crowneth thee with lovingkindness and tender mercies;
Who satisfieth thy mouth with good things; so that thy youth is renewed like the eagle's.

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

How to Pray Effectively




How to pray effectively... 

1) Pray Without Wavering 
James 1:6-8 – “But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed. For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.”

2) Pray With Confidence in God’s Word 
Matthew 7:7-11 – “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent? If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?”
Hebrews 11:1 – “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.”

3) Pray with Boldness
Hebrews 4:16 – “Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.”

4) Pray Always!
Ephesians 6:18 – “Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints;”

5) Pray From Your Spirit 
Romans 8:26 – “Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.”

6) Pray About Everything! 
Philippians 4:6 – “Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.”
Supplication - Strongs #1162 - need, indigence (seriously impoverished condition; poverty), want, privation (lack of the usual comforts or necessaries of life), penury (scarcity; dearth; inadequacy; insufficiency), a seeking, asking, entreating, entreaty to God or to man

7) Pray With THANKSGIVING Expecting God to Bless You! 
Colossians 4:2 – “Continue in prayer, and watch in the same with thanksgiving;”

8) Pray in FAITH 
James 5:15 – “And the prayer of faith shall save the sick, and the Lord shall raise him up; and if he have committed sins, they shall be forgiven him.”

7) Pray With A CLEAN HEART 
James 5:16 – “Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.”
God does not hear or respond to all prayers
1 Peter 3:7 – (tells husbands to give honor to their wives so that their prayers won’t be hindered).
1 Peter 3:12 – says that the face of the Lord is against them that do evil.

8) Pray Sober 
1 Peter 4:7 – “But the end of all things is at hand: be ye therefore sober, and watch unto prayer.”

9) Sometimes You’ll Need to Fast & Pray 
Matthew 17:21 – the disciples could not cure the lunatic boy who kept falling into the fire and Jesus said they needed to FAST and PRAY.

10) Pray According to the Model Prayer that Jesus Prayed
Matthew 6:9-13 – “After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread.
And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil:
For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen.”

First - Call out God's Name(s) & Character - "Hallowed be thy Name"

Second - Acknowledge that His will is to bring heaven to earth - "Thy Kingdom come... on earth as it is in heaven."

Third - Ask for the petition of your heart - "Daily bread."

Fourth - Forgive everyone who has hurt or wronged you before asking for forgiveness - "And forgive us our debts..."

Fifth - Pray for God to help you to escape, overcome, avoid and run from the temptations and trappings that the devil sets before you - "And lead us not into temptation..." 

Sixth - Acknowledge that God has ALL POWER & ALL GLORY - "for Thine is the Kingdom..."


SeventhThank Him! - "Amen." - means surely, indeed, truly

11) Be sure to pray in JESUS name! 
John 14:13 - Jesus said, "And whatsoever ye shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son."

Sunday, May 11, 2014

Mother's Day Prayer

Below is a prayer that makes a great gift for mom on Mother's 
Day or on any special occasion!




Dear Precious Lord: 

I pray all of heavens blessings on my mom today... and always. 
Please keep her safe and healthy all the days of her life. 
Give her joy unspeakable and a peace that passes all understanding. 
I pray that You would grant her the desire of her heart. 
I pray that my mother would prosper and be in health, even as her soul prospers. 
I pray that no weapon formed against her will ever prosper. 
I pray that any  enemy that rises up against her one way will flee from her in seven directions. 
I pray that You will take her up to the high place in times of confusion so that she can see things from Your perspective. 
I pray that her heart will safely trust in You. 
Help her to live in the secret place with You - each and every day. 
Surround her with Christian friends who will help her grow in her faith. 
I pray that she will grow in knowledge and understanding of Your Word and that Wisdom will be her guide. 
Lord, I pray that my mom knows how much she is loved by her family. 
Give her eyes to see the heart of those who sincerely want the best for her.
Keep my sweet mother in the palm of Your strong hand. 
Help me to be a better daughter so that Your love shines bright in all that I do and say. 
Thank You, Lord, for my precious mother. 
I am so thankful that you gave her to me. 
She is my example of strength, courage and beauty.
Let mercy and grace follow her all the days of her life. 
In Jesus Name, AMEN. 

- Deborah Ross

Thursday, March 27, 2014

RESPECT & SECURITY IN MARRIAGE

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RESPECT & SECURITY IN MARRIAGE


When it comes to marriage, Ephesians 5:33 is a powerful verse that is often over-looked.  

It says…
“Never the less let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.”

It really boils down to two words:  SECURITY and RESPECT

Hello, I’m Deborah Ross!

Husbands, the one thing your WIFE needs most is SECURITY!

What kind of security?

All kinds!  Like, … protection… financial peace… sexual purity… and most importantly… knowing that you love and trust God!

Wives,… the number one thing that your HUSBAND needs most is RESPECT!

He needs to know that you are not rolling your eyes at him… not complaining to your friends about him… not bossing him around… and not putting him down!

Did you know that your husband will give you security … as you give him respect?

Likewise husband, your wife will give you respect as you give her security.

So,… which one of you???… will go first?

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Saturday, March 22, 2014

Submitting One to Another

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SUBMITTING ONE TO ANOTHER


When it comes to marriage, Ephesians 5:21 tells us to submit ourselves one to another in the fear of the Lord.

Hello, I’m Deborah Ross!

I think women – as a whole – have a fear of the word “submit.”

Perhaps, because we perceive it as being “less than” in the eyes of our husband.

On the other hand, some husbands take the whole submission thing way out of context, using God’s word as an excuse to rule with an iron fist!

So, what does God’s word really mean when it says “submit?”

It means SUBMIT TO EACH OTHER!

A WAY OF SAYING:
*I value you!
*I value your needs!
*I value your opinions!
*I value your dreams!
*And, … I value OUR MARRIAGE!

You see, submitting is just a value system.  Nothing to fear.  And, certainly not an iron fist.

Will you put submitting to one another … into practice – TODAY?


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Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Sorry... Seems to be the Hardest Word



"I'm sorry!" - Two of the most powerful words we could ever speak to each other; yet, for many, uttering these simple, two little words is virtually impossible. Why is this? Perhaps pride, self preservation, justification or even neglect play a part in our "reasons" for avoiding these freeing words.

Though these words have the potential to change the course of our lives - to the glory of God - in a profound way, so often we become paralyzed by the lie of the enemy, thinking that we somehow give permission for the offense when we forgive. It's like we have an invisible muzzle on our mouth that restricts us from saying what we know is needed to restore relationships and, more importantly, to restore our relationship with our heavenly Father.

Ever since the Garden of Eden, Satan has been busy at work, trying to create division between mankind. He knows that strife and unforgiveness open the door to a long list of hardships, really curses, that we bring upon ourselves as we refuse to humble ourselves to break these barriers by simply saying, "I'm sorry." Instead, we often create prisons in our own mind that hinder us from the good plans that God has for us. The master deceiver knows that if he can just get us to either offend someone or get us offended by the actions or words of another, he can slither his way into the depths of our soul (our mind, will and emotions), causing us to sin against God.

Unforgiveness is sin! It can lead us down the haunted road of bitterness, resentment, anger, rage and, ultimately, retaliation if not purged through humility and forgiveness. This path of self destruction brings further guilt and separation from the goodness of the Lord, while causing a whole new set of problems in our lives.

The Word of God is very clear about the importance of an apology. Mark 11:25-26 says, we should not even begin to pray to the Lord until we have forgiven those who have offended us. This passage goes on to say that we must forgive others... if we expect God to forgive us! Then again, in Matthew 5:23-24, Jesus says we should go and make things right with our brother (or sister) before we take our offering to the Lord. Clearly, God has no respect for offerings that we give out of a desire to make ourselves "feel" better. Trying to hide, or cover up, our unforgiving, true spirit from the Lord is futile. Our offerings to Him should go forth with no shame. We should give to Him out of a clean heart.

Albeit difficult, deep in our conscious we each know it is our job to be the first to say I'm sorry whenever we have offended someone. But, what do we do when the tables are turned, and someone has offended us? Our actions should ultimately be the same, whether the offense is created by someone else or by us. As a Child of the King, we should have a deep desire to keep our hearts clean by letting go of those things that were sent by the devil to destroy us. Granted, the person who offended us may not even know that they did so; still, we need to be quick to bring things out into the open in a loving way and then simply say, "I'm sorry."

It doesn't always seem fair. Certainly, it doesn't seem natural. But, one thing is for sure, everything in God's Kingdom is hinged on LOVE. Our job is to walk in love. His job is to bring freedom, restoration, and favor to our lives as we obey His word by "doing" His will. The scriptures say that "obedience is better than sacrifice." Learning to be obedient by simply learning the art of a humble apology is of great price in the Lord's eye's.

Now, there are those who will say, "I'm sorry, but _______." Friend, that is not a godly apology. What you are really saying is, "I'm trying to obey God by apologizing to you, but I really don't forgive you and I really don't feel that I should have to apologize to you." You are probably thinking to yourself, "So what is wrong with that? I can't help the way I feel. Right?"

Perhaps, that is the way you feel at the present time. But, as you "choose" to freely forgive without any attachments, you are cutting the chains that bind you to a life of bitterness. You are leaving the response up to the other person and therefore releasing yourself of all of the responsibility of that sin. What they choose to do with your apology is between them and God. You are placing the ball in their court and raising your hands in worship to the King of Glory! Your feelings will line up with your actions once you determine to do what is commanded in God's word.

It sounds crazy, I know, but God's principles are pretty radical. Supernatural things happen when we follow His directions for our lives. He makes crooked things - straight. He makes closed doors - open. He makes depression - turn to joy. He gives LIFE! All we have to do is trust Him... and "do" what He says.

One other scenario I'd like to address in this article concerning an apology is this: Saying I'm sorry does not necessarily mean you need to hang around that person. You can forgive someone and make peace with them, yet, let them go. This is not God's ultimate desire, but sometimes it is necessary in order for you to live your life free from future offenses and free from further conflicts. In every apology, try to bring with it restoration; but, if that is impossible, walk in freedom knowing that you have released all negative thoughts and emotions concerning your relationship with that person. Decide to love them in spite your differences. Pray for their well being.

"I'm sorry!" - Two words that seem harder to birth than a 20 pound baby. Yet, these powerful two words can - and will - change the course of your life, bring favor, and set you free to LIVE a life abundant in Christ Jesus! Now, go... forgive, and be blessed!

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Deborah Ross is an international evangelist, speaker, author, singer and choreographer. She is the mother of two teen-aged sons and the wife of Jay Ross since 1984. Her new book, Healing a Broken Marriage, is available now through bookstores and on-line. Deborah Ross is available for speaking engagements and can be contacted through her website at www.DeborahRossMinistries.org.

Monday, November 18, 2013

All Sin is NOT the Same!



*Some sin(s) will thwart or ruin your destiny

*Some sin(s) will destroy your health (diseases & sickness)

*Some sin(s) will destroy your relationships

*Some sin(s) will kill you

*Some sin(s) will cause you to have a bad reputation

*Some sin(s) will hurt people who love you most 

*Some sin(s) will cause you to feel bad about yourself (insecure)

*Some sin(s) put you into financial bondage

*Some sin(s) leave a big scar that can never be removed

*The list goes on...

The reason God hates sin is because SIN HURTS PEOPLE!

Jesus paid the price for us to live VICTORIOUSLY over sin.

Through Christ, sin no longer has a hold on us.

Sin always has consequences.

It's not about finding loop-holes for making it into heaven, it's about LIVING a victorious life on earth and DOING the will of God!

We SHOULD NOT judge people who are broken and in sin. 

We SHOULD judge sin because sin hurts people.

We SHOULD NOT entangle ourselves with sinners who would influence us to do things we shouldn't do.

We SHOULD WANT to live in the blessing of God, and the blessing is only granted to those who are obedient to His Word.

Sure, we could practice certain sins and still make it into heaven, BUT we SHOULD NOT want to live a crippled life on earth... we SHOULD want to live victoriously!

When we minister to people who live in sin, we SHOULD NOT join their sin.

We SHOULD NOT allow those who practice sin to speak into our lives.

Christians should NEVER be bent on living a sinful life because they feel that all sin is the same.

Read Deuteronomy 28 (Entire) and Deuteronomy 30:19-20 - Life is about CHOICES!

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Now, go... and sin no more! - John 8:11